It was a pleasant surprise to observe maam differently with flowers, different attire and sacred markings on forehead. But I felt that maam was wantedly making a point in the class to make student perceive that it was a special day for her. But really I judged that it may not be true and maam have purposefully come like that . But except me, almost everyone else perceived things the way she wanted.
The class revolved around how humans perceive others on their first meet and how that impression can play a role later. It was also communicated that the impression created on the first meet can be changed, but it takes tremendous efforts.Perceptions differ from person to person. Everyone try to look at things blending their own values to it. It was well explained by the Maya-Ezhumalai-Rocky-Susheel-Rahul story!
Judging People:
“Good judgement comes from experience. Sometimes, experience comes from bad judgement.”
I feel this as one of the important topics in my life. Why means I have a habit of judging people but certainly not in the first instance maam. But surely after a couple of meetings. But the best thing is it happens always the same way I judge.
I really don’t know how to remain without judging people. It’s too hard for me. I have many instances in life where I have judged about people and almost 80%- 90% it happened in the way I Judge. But I feel really confused after attending this session of IDIO and also I feel how tough to remain judging and behave myself as a memoryless brain.
In the class a video was played and it was your husband who was speaking about astronomy and I promise you maam that I was unable to come to a conclusion about him with just a single video of him. But I am very much sure that when I self analyze myself I am very much sure that I wont judge people in the first instance. But I do judge them after couple of meetings. If u cant judge people we can be easily cheated at many instances. But also I feel that there is some negative effects of judging people too. Even a person who we know for quiet long time may also prove us our judgement on them is too wrong even we have complete information about them. I have certain bad experiences with them in my life.
From my opinions and the discussion made in the class, Its not good to prejudice someone based on their looks, their behaviours and their way of communication. But also in this world no one will be provide you complete information about themselves. The best example of this comes from the movie the pursuit of happiness.
How an interviewer gonna judge a guy who is attending the interview in the next 10 minutes time?. With the grades he got so far in his life? With the answers for the question asked in the interview which is purely academic? With the communication he possess? May be it depends on the position and the roles of the job he has been called for. Many guys could pretend to look intellectual for being get selected. So it’s impossible to recruit a guy within just 10 minutes. The answer is whether it may come from ones own experience.
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